Ok so I don't wanna go into details but my ex broke up with me and in a really bad way because she had done it once before and then came back and then broke up again. We both meat at a dancing class. I've been dancing for years she just started last year we both fell in love almost from the beginning but after 8 months she had some problems with herself and broke up with me and went back to her ex and stopped dancing and hanging out with us. We haven't seen each other in months because she's been keeping away. But we did run into each other a few months back and I tried to talk to her with no success because she just blew me off telling me to get out of her sight and keep away from her.
But a couple of days something weird started happening I saw her rollerblading by a party one evening and it was twice in the span of 2 minutes on the same day that we ran into each other just hours earlier. Then the next day there was a party and she showed up just stopped by for 20 minutes and then left. Thing is she was on the other side of the floor and then moved with her friend so that she was just about 5 feet away from me and then just left. We didn't speak didn't even look at each other that much well I didn't look at her because I was doing my own thing trying not to be preoccupied by her.
Well what keeps echoing in my head is she told me to stay way from her now she's showing up in places she knows I'll be there and why if she saw me on the other side did she move closer if she wanted me to leave her alone.
I just don't get it if she's trying to reconnect or come back or whatever why doesn't she just pick up the phone and call me and say if we can go for a coffee or something or did she really just come back to hurt me some more because I was really hurt by her and I still am.
I know I don't have the right to say who can and can't go somewhere I just hopped she's stay away if she didn't care.
Most Helpful Girl
I always believe in giving everyone a second shot, but she has done nothing but ditch you and dissh you from Day One, and with her little speech and blowing you off, it is her way of saying: Go to hell, leave me alone.
She has this Problem child pattern of hurting you and Re-hurting you, and I see where she may be starting and stirring her old tricks up again. And with this little act, she is only putting on an 'Act' to get you where she wants you, use and abuse you and leave you in the lurches once more with------I was really hurt by her.
Remember your feelings, remember how your heart felt, and every time you put it on your arm, she always manages to rip it off and 'Rollerblade' over it...
Listen to your head, Not just to your heart this time. Do it right. Something is Definitely 'Echoing in my head to stay away from her now,' so do yourself as favor and Walk away from her forever... Avoid her at all costs.
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Most Helpful Guy
I would stay away from this gal that is poison...
but you seem infatuated so here's a story that matched her actions
she quit dance class because her ex found a way to break you two up
then he convinced her you were bad and was doing hurtful things to her behind her back
so she would stiff arm you on sight
then she began to figure out he was the bad one & that some of his stories were lies
so began displaying herself to you in hopes you'd call her, want to get with her again
(and forget her mean quips?)
so she's on a fishing trip for you... but won't be the one to make the first move1THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE