Totally at a loss here. Ex is behaving in a very selfish manner and prioritizing his work and family above me to occupy himself. This really pisses me off! He broke up with me due to constant arguing and that was effecting his work life, etc. He blocked me on FB to anger me more an just left some other apps open for contact. Now, he just says to go with the flow of life and let's both focus on our careers. What a jackass: sorry to say.
He was meant to do a lot of things that were based on his career progression, which never happened. And, now he thinks it's okay to 'just be friends' for the time being. I think this is absolutely pathetic and extremely selfish. I am tired of people in general bailing on their responsibilities. He convinces himself that it's OKAY to now restrict contact to just weekends and 'live his life' of family and work. This is so aggravating after more than a year together.
I don't think I can take the minimal contact when we in touch at least 5 days a week before. He is just being a meanie and blames my bad attitude for the 'break up'.
Now, he's saying crap like 'when I'm not busy, I will contact you'. Again, this is very hurtful and plain fucked up.
I don't know if I can deal much longer and it's only been a month since the fallout. The only thing that's stopping me from cutting him OUT is our history and the bond between us.
Please don't say to 'move on' or 'let it go' as this person is very important to me. I just don't know how to reconnect when he's distracting himself with all this crap and being stubborn/angry towards me.
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i would stop doing the things that makes him mad just so he can unblock u from Facebook and communicate with you more i think he wasn't trying to break up with you what he wanted was to be able to focus on work and family have your support and come to you not being mad but supportive of him getting further in life u should see it as this him getting further in his career opens other opportunities for you both like living together seeing each other more and in person so both of you guys focusing on a career to having a life together doesn't sound bad at all but everyone goes threw this in a relationship so be understanding until you can get to a place to where you guys can both have it your way and are in a compromise position i think things would be better if you guys focus on your guys career and just move in with each other or get a apartment next to each other it will be better don't half nothing to argue about but bills in order to be in the place he wants and to have a life he needs to focus on his career u being supportive is really the best thing to do or allow him space to get his life together and focus on yours and then get back together but if you guys are together and he's busy then i wouldn't get upset cause u gotta see things in a different way he's with you no one else just busy if he doesn't have time for you then he sure isn't gonna have time to do anything bad with someone else0
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