Me and my ex were together for 3 years lived together for 2. We broke up over a huge fight. It's been six months now and a month ago she told me was gonna date a old high school friend. I went NC she called 3 days later saying she didn't want to lose me and that she didn't want her to be nothing to me ad began crying. I said I would try to be her friend. I went back to NC she called a week later to say she loved me but is hurt from the break up and that she knows she played a role and was sorry for the way she treated me and that she never cheated. I went back to NC two weeks later she called and said that "checking up on you" I said I was fine and said I was ok" I keep the convo under 2 min. She sent a text "was it bad that I called you?" I replied "do you care about me?" She said "I DO CARE" I asked does she have romantic feelings for me? She replied "I'm not ready to admit that" I said true love doesn't fade she replied "I know trust me" I asked if she loved her new bf she said "NO!" Why is she calling me and texting knowing I still love her and want to be with her but she has a bf. She also said that she said"I care about someone (me) that I don't think I can be with" I live in Cali she lives in GA but I'm moving back in a few months... Ladies what does she want? How do I get her to say what she wants"
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Ask her what she wants! Just plain out "What do you want to happen between us & our relationship?"
It sounds like she wants to get back together & her bf is just a rebound or someone to" pass the time" with.0