I Said Some Awful Things To My Boyfriend And He Seems Distant Now?
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My fiancee can get like this when she misunderstands me. It takes a lot of patience to put up with misunderstandings and being misunderstood, and I don't blame him for not having the patience required.
Step one, I'd say, is that you never drink again. You apparently get UGLY when you drink. Whatever you do when drunk, you're still responsible for. Doesn't matter what happens. You knew what was possible, and accepted the risk. You can't be trusted when you're drunk, and you like to drink. You tried to make things work, then you got drunk and said some bullshit. Does he drink as much as you do?
As for you two staying together, that is hard to say. If the two of you do break up, don't drown yourself in booze. It already made things worse once, and you can't be trusted when drunk.
I can't really speak much on the relation portion of things, because I don't know much about him. I know that he likes to hang out with his friends. How often? And how does that compare to how often you hang out with your friends? You two should be like each other's best friend.
Well let me ask you if he got slopping drunk, and slept with a couple sluts how would you feel? you may think this is trust, but people say when you drunk you are the most honest, so this being said if you boyfriend believes to be true You might actually feel the way you said you felt about those things. You've got a lot of work to do if you want to make it work, but Im gonna tell you its probably not going to work out. You have to do something pretty big in his mind to make this all better whatever that big thing is I don't know but you may know it in your mind. Maybe even ask him what he wants in the end if he still wants it to work out or if he in fact has given up on. These types of things happen in relationship and the willingness to work through it shows you how strong your relationship is and his love for you is. So if he's not willing to work through it I can't see he loved you the same that you loved him
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