So I've been having issues in my marriage for some time now, so please spare me the focus on fixing your marriage talk. I think this girl I work with doesn't receive attention from her husband. When I first started a year ago she would stare at me and put herself around me all the time. I didn't really care for her at first, and I noticed that she was popping up all over the place. i'd bump into her randomly all the time and she'd just stare at me with this deer in headlights look. She is fairly shy and doesn't talk to many people. She'd come back to my office and asked me a random question and would just linger there. I stopped her to talk in the hall one day and I thought she was going to faint, she turned beet red and was stuttering. Shortly after this we were taking the same breaks and walking and talking together almost every morning. Part of it was me meeting her, and I think she was reciprocating as well. She would meet me 3-4 days one week then disappear on me the next, then repeat. I became annoyed and started to change things up and ignore her, she seems to wonder why. I also talked about other girls around her. guess I was trying to make her jealous. Overtime, I noticed she would flip her hair and smile real big at my buddy, sometimes right in front of me, sometimes shed watch me while she did it. They worked in the same department, and i never saw them talk like her and I did. Overtime, I became more and more frustrated because I liked her. I noticed she began to leave down the stairs right after my buddy on the way out of work, like no matter if he left early or late. I'd watch and never really see them talking mostly just her arriving to the parking lot as he was getting into his car or as he was driving away. I figured she wanted his attention. I went into hardcore ignore mode, and was cold to he for 2 months. I kind of felt something would happen. Sure enough my buddy tells me one day how she has been following him and how they walk and talk everyday
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Please, please, please divorce your wife. I'd definitely consider this being borderline unfaithful. Why? Have you told your wife how you like another woman? Would you consider cheating on your wife with this woman?
Don't break a woman's heart. I don't know if your wife cheated on you, but it'd be best if you refrained from this behavior or just divorced her. I know if I were your wife, I'd either want my husband to tell me or just leave me.
You should only love your wife. Only like her. Being jealous of another married woman is just borderline unfaithful. I'm just old fashion and I wouldn't want this to happen to me. I like monogamous relationships. Just hearing this would break my heart and be enough to divorce you. Your wife may be different.
But divorce her if you think you wouldn't be able to control yourself. If you love your wife, you would never even think about a woman like this.
"If there is ever a time another person comes along and you have to choose between us, choose the other person. If you really loved me, you wouldn't even consider the person" - paraphrased internet quote.1
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