So I know a girl since some months, I have her among my contacts, and I really want her. Unfortunately, after almost 1 week texting between us, she revealed she has a boyfriend. I'm sure she had a initial interest on me since the day we first met. So what should I do to make she forget her boyfriend who is overseas for me? What moves should I do to make her my girlfriend? I have few time until they get together again, so now is the time!!
PS: Don't tell me this wrong bla bla because this is not since she is not married; besides that we don't know what type of guy is her boyfriend while I'm the guy who can make her happy and will stay with her until death (if I realize she is the girl to marry after some time dating).
Most Helpful Girl
How about you move on and find a girl who's not taken. You can't "make" her choose you over her current boyfriend.
Besides, jumping from one relationship to another without taking a breather and being single for a while is just not healthy. I don't understand why people think that it's something you can/should do? You're basically taking all the old baggage from the previous relationship DIRECTLY into the new one, without sorting anything out. That just won't work out.0
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Most Helpful Guy
For one, you should never convince or persuade someone to choose to be with you. The fact that you are asking suggests that there is lack of confidence in your ability and appeal to naturally influence her to be with you. It also suggests that you are aware of the lack of interest she has in you.
For two, being that she has someone, I therefor ask, why would consider investing in a woman who may have feelings for another guy, especially a woman who has basically turned you down, correct me if I'm wrong?
To answer your question; just ask her out to lunch, or whatever? If she is interested in you, in what you have to offer, it's all that will be need to get her to come out.2
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