Break up even though I didn't really want to?
Basically, has anyone experienced this? I am trying to have as little contact with him as possible and some things are necessary to rekindle any hope left. He is an alcoholic and uses cocaine. He has slowed down with the usage of coke, but the alcohol is necessary now in order for him to function. I told him I have to distance myself until his bags are packed and he's ready to go to rehab. Too many times I hear him say," I know I need help" and "I'm ready, just not yet".. or "next week"..." I've got things I have to do first." Ugh. I didn't want to break up with him cause he is a stellar being with so much talent and potential, a huge heart and many other awesome qualities. But I knew I was enabling him by accepting his mood swings, off the wall behavior, ok for him to do stuff but not me... so I had to distance myself. Does anyone have any insight on what steps I should take next, because I don't want a day to go by without having him know I still do love him.. for none of us know when our last day will be.
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