Why does my ex treats me badly when I was so good to him?
What Guys Said 1
It doesn't sound like he is on drugs at all. It doesn't sound like he cares about you at all. He slept with you simply because you were there and he could. The fact he had a girlfriend just means that he doesn't really hold women in particularly high regard.
He is behaving the way he does because he doesn't care about you, and you keep trying to contact him. He doesn't want you in his life, so you continuously contacting him would be pissing him off. Ignoring your texts, blocking your number? It doesn't get much more blatant than that.
The fact that you were good to him is irrelevant, really. If a guy doesn't care about a woman, her being good to him or indifferent to him isn't going to change his opinion one way or another. If he doesn't care about you as a person (as his actions imply this), being nice doesn't cause him to suddenly care, he just will see it as a way to get benefits that he wants. He is thinking about himself, clearly, and so your actions aren't seen as 'acts of love', they are seen as 'what can I get out of this'.
He is incredibly selfish, clearly. He is concerned first and foremost with himself and with satisfying his own needs and desires. Unfortunately, that doesn't include you. Well, fortunately, really, because he sounds like an asshole - to only unfortunate part here is that you care for him at all.
Start going through whatever you have to do to get some child support out of this guy if you haven't already, because he most definitely doesn't care for you in any romantic sense.1
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