My ex broke up with me two months ago because I cut myself. We spoke on the phone just over a week ago and he said that he misses me, we spoke for about two hours like normal. We spoke about me cutting (I haven't cut since) and if we got back together and split, he doesn't want to be responsible if I did something even more worse! Even though I know I wouldn't.
A few nights after the phone call, he went out with his friends and he said that he loves me. His friend told me to text him and I did but he didn't reply.
We haven't spoken since that call except when I went to his work (a shop) and my little sister was at his till.
I miss so much, I can't stop thinking about him and it's annoying. What should I do? I still love him as well. Do I message him?
Don't say move on because I've been trying so hard!
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I have always believed that just because two people Break Up doesn't mean that can't Make Up Or that it means----Goodbye forever, my love. And in your case, this is a perfect example of when giving a relationship another chance in love just might Be the ticket to another New beginning. However, it may not happen over nite, but he Has said what's on his mind, told you his honest heartfelt feelings and now----It's your turn to take the train and turn it in a different direction.
Give him a call, tell him you would like very much to have a serious pep talk about your breaking up, what you both could possibly Do to make things different, make things Better and that if he comes back, and even if he doesn't-------No more cutting... You Just want a Clean Start to Begin your Beguine over again.
Good luck. xx0
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