I've been with my bf for 4 years to start off, this girl has been good friends with him for longer than I've known him. she was head over heels in love with him and had a pet name for him but he seemed kinda oblivious at the time. anyways 6 months into us dating she came with us to this party uninvited... well he invited her when it was supposed to be just us going. i got annoyed and asked him why she was there because she came to practically everything and he got angry with me and dumped me over it. i found out she had been lying about me too saying i was texting her and calling her behind his back calling her horrible names which i didnt.
during the week we were split up i saved text messages of hers admitting she was in love with him and that she had lied about me and i showed them to him. he said he was sorry and we got back together and promised to never speak to her again.
a year later she came to his graduation, he invited her. he expected me to be ok with it even though he supposedly hadn't talked to her since then. i didn't say anything because id ruin the day for him.
then i saw he still had her on Facebook a few months later so i deleted him off Facebook and just ignored it hoing he would delete her liked i asked him to. he said he did.
year 3 of the relationship he was in this biking group for 8 months where they dirt raced across tracks and fields, i wasn't too interested at first but i wanted to share his hobby with him by coming to watch sometimes. he told me at the very last minute on the ride up there that she was part of his biking group and she was in it before he joined. i told him i thought he wasn't speaking to her and he said he was just on friendly terms. she still called him by his pet name and she tried to be friendly with me. told him not to speak to her and he said hed leave the group.
3 days ago i went on his Facebook cause i never use it and i saw he was STILL friends with her.
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This is just a preview of how he'd treat you even if you were his wife, please simply state how he's made you feel and shut the door. If in all this time he's disrespecting your feelings, basically he's too selfish and immature to give you what you need. To me, it's not about her, it's about HIM and how he's responding (or not) to this situation.1