My ex bf broke up with me about 3mths ago and seems to show me he still has feelings for me but also has his distance. He told me he wants us to be friends but he also has kissed me once a week and has gotten jealous when i talk to guys. He is single right now. I dnt want to completely ignore him but I feel like he hasn't really missed me like he should. I feel the more time apart the gamble I have of either loosing him or gaining him. I'm scared of the outcome I dnt want it to backfire on me and he say she doesn't even want to be my friend. I don't know what to do please help.
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I'm not a believer of keeping ex's in your life at all! I think they should be 100% cut out of your life and cease all contact with. Being friends with an ex is just going to cause all the problems and more you talking about. Keeping an ex in your life cannot be done cleanly. As long as you keep an ex in your life you will never be able to sever that tie with them and move on. They will always be a distraction and come in between you and any one you are dating. I have enough friends. I don't need to keep in contact with an ex. They have nothing to contribute or add to my life. All they are going to do is prevent me from fully moving on and finding another relationship.0
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