My relationship is making me unhappy but I love her too much to just go.
What Girls Said 1
There are things you guys can do.
You say you're taking a break... does that mean a break from the relationship and each other altogether, or what?
You're both going to counselors, that's GREAT. Keep going, it's bound to help you with adjusting to college and missing home. It definitely can't hurt.
As for her... you either need to sit down and have a serious discussion about what you want, or you need to end the relationship once and for all.
If you feel you guys can compromise and find a happy medium, find a way to make the relationship something that makes you BOTH happy and not WANTING it, instead of NEEDING it, then by all means, try.
Honestly though, it sounds like you're ready to be out of it completely.
That's something you'll need to decide for yourself.
Either take steps and be honest with each other about trying to make it work, or end the relationship and see how things are then.1
What Guys Said 1
" She's just not right for me. "
That sums it up right there. Breaking up is hard, but it's for the greater in good for you BOTH in this case. You just wrote an entire paragraph on WHY you aren't happy. Sounds like your answer is pretty clear.0
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