6.5 years with a girl I thought was my life partner. Engaged after 5 years. Always treated her like a gentleman.
6 months ago we moved back to our home city after living away in the big smoke for a while, and travelling along the way. She seemed unhappy for a few months, so I tried to ease the pressur by cancelling the wedding.
It got worse, she started parting and drinking with coworkers. Before I knew it, she was in with a bad crowd and ended up cheating on me (sort of - a couple of kisses but the worst part was she was texting me constantly)
After initial rage wore off - I decided 6.5 years wasn't worth throwing it all away and tried to fix it. But as soon as a I did, the dynamic changed. Now I wanted her back, she suddenly didn't want me. Its like she knows im there as a back up so she is just going to enjoy being alone...
What do I do? I love this girl, and know if we had an allround amazing relationship for so long that there must be still something there.
FYI im 29 she is 26.
Side notes - She loves excitement and adventure, i have a feeling me dragging her back to our quiet-ish city was a big part in this.