So, my girlfriend of nearly 6 months just broke up with me. We are in our last year of high school. To be fair things between us have been getting dry for the last month and a half. I didn't think anything of it though cause she isn't the type of girl that really shows affection. However, when we text which is like day in and day out, she texts with relative response. her responses are more straight and to the point i guess you could say. when i tried to be, as she puts it, cheesy, she wouldn't reciprocate like she used too. even when we hung out last week i noticed she wasn't like how she usually was. she used to put her head on my shoulder when we would sit and we would cuddle. But when we hung out she simply had a gap between us and she sat opposing me. i saw these signs but i didn't think anything of it simply because i didn't want to acknowledge what i feared most; breaking up.
anyways, she broke up and her reason for it was because she said that she doesn't feel the same way like she did in the beginning. she said she spent a month thinking about it all. i don't understand what that means! like, i just don't understand how that really happened cause my feelings for her only grew. and it honestly sucks so much cause all i think about are the good times we had together. one of my friends suggested that because we have not seen each other all summer, that she may have lost her feelings cause of that. Our mutual friend told me that she told her that she doesn't know how she feels. I don't blame my now ex-girlfriend for anything, but it really is killing me.
we had this weird and special connection that brought us together and that stemmed from us having so many things in common. more than we had with anyone. i just care a lot about her and i feel like crap cause i feel like i lost the one person i cared about most.
sorry for my life story :P
but if any one has a similar story, please do tell. anything is appreciated. Thanks!
Most Helpful Girl
She may have found someone else to better her interest. If your looking for a way to get her back than you need spice it up. Get her flowers do little surprises for. Get her an apology gift. No matter if you didn't do anything. Just apologize and see if you can rekindle that chemistry you had for each other1
Most Helpful Guy
People just grow up and as they grow up their preferences change, and apparently her's changed1