- give him a call
- let things cool down first , then call
- he should call
- its too late , just let it go
Most Helpful Guy
I don't know if your married or not but here is my two cents.
When deciding whether or not to commit, be aware of the consequences divorce can have on your children and your finances "If you are married". I knew somebody that went threw a divorce and they went from being rich to being bankrupt because of the family courts. They fought for the smallest of things "who kept the house, belongings, kids, etc. but put all that aside if you do love him here are some steps that I think can help you.
You too "maybe" are often focused everywhere but your marriage/relationship. It's painful, but you need to "make time". What I mean by that is that you are focused more on your education, work, exercise, Facebook rather than the relationship. Even though these activities may seem harmless but it is a way to distract you from the relationship.
After that you need to eliminate all the name calling, etc.. "If their is any" It's not going to help. Take ownership for your feelings and frustration by focusing on why you husband/boyfriend action's disturb you. Replace the you "you always do this" with I "how I felt when". It is easy to complain but you need to learn to ask for what you want.
Get into the habit of "Is now a good time" If the goal is to connect, make sure your hs/bf is mentally and emotionally available to connect. Try to enter the his world by listening and understanding without responding. Things may look entirely different, be curious and interested in what your partner is saying. You may be surprised what you discover.
Show your hs/bf appreciation. Its a good way to decrease resentment and reinforce positive behavior. Give more than just a simple thank you but not overboard. It makes his efforts seem valued.
You still need to go on dates. Make a set time to meet.
Every individual is different, so it is important to find out what types of behaviors make him feel cared for. Ask him to write a list of behaviors that make him feel cared for and vice versa.
Most Helpful Girl
I've been in a similar situation. I was dropped for saying something stupid in bed. Just let it go honey. It hurts but it makes your new love all the better.