We weren't officially boyfriend and girlfriend but, we talked almost everyday for nearly 3 months. I won't get in to detail but, he says he really likes me but, I have some baggage he can't deal with. He also went off on a tangent about how he's still in love with his ex from 3 years ago.
Anyway, I feel like crap, I'm 20 and this is the first time I've really liked someone. Help...
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With 'baggage to boot,' sweetie, and as hard as this is for you with this schmo from Idaho, there will be a few more who most likely Come through your door and the only thing they may want is Not a Commitment with you and your little one, but a roll and in the hay and to whisper sweet Nothings in your ear. So typical... No one wants to get involved. It never smells good in Denmark with guys like him.
And with this Bozo, with an 'Ex' who he still feels his heart jumping through hoops for, it was an added piece of heart break, for on top of Everything else----You became a rebound as well.
His excuses, although painful, truthful as they are, are Ones in which a lesson in love needs to be learned from: Don't be so quick to wear your heart on your sleeve and always, for the sake of someone even closer to your own 'Heart, Stay on guard with Any Tom, Dick and Harry that strolls in through your port hole.
I'm sorry you feel like 'crap,' we have all gone through it one way or another. However, lick your wounds, Forget this pup, and just be grateful that it didn't go any further where you and your loved one would have been really in the doghouse, Licking more than One wound.
Good luck. xx0