For those who have been dumped regardless of whether you actually loved the person, cheated on the person, or just drifted apart and the sting of being the one dumped has left you feeling frustrated and stuck. What have been the best (combination of healthy and fast) ways you have let the memory of that relationship stop haunting your life?
Best Ways To Move on Like A Champ? (Tested)
What Girls Said 3
Do things you enjoy, spend time with friends, be positive and don't get involved in any mudslinging or gossip. Likewise, don't turn to negative patterns or crutches that will only hurt you in the end. Stay strong dude!1
Man, I'm moved by all these feels. Beaut'ful.
Most of the time I'll just let myself indulge in a little self pity. You know, just enough to be a little nicer to myself, a little more patient. If you're prone to overthinking, like I am, activities that get you into the "flow" helps keep you in the moment instead of thinking of, say, some chick you used to d.. er. Date. For instance, I'll work on my art or my novel or my fitness. Me me me.
Also, thinking about others more will distract you when you start feeling that itch to talk to someone and she pops up. Call a friend, a close family member and tell them you love them.
Just find your own ways to turn the negative experience into a positive one, it really moves you forward.
Also, time, music, good books/films, a good flirt, and a new pair of jeans. Or shoes.0
I hope someone awnsers because im going through that at the moment0
What Guys Said 4
Guys got it easy. Prostitutes is the #1 solution. For girls, its much harder. A girl needs a lot of support when dealing with a break up, or she'll commit suicide.
From my experience, remedies and solutions (I know some of my friends have done this):
Buy a prostitute
Get drunk to the point where you throw up and cry
Hangout at the church until a priest talks to you
Punch your wall and make as many holes and possible0
What works best for me is whenever I think of the person I just camlu tell myself (in my head) move on it's over, sounds kind of stupid and simple but eventually you associate those two things and it helps tremendously. The first couple of days though I just binge watch chick flicks haha.0
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exist as though she is dead. move on, grateful i didn't have to pay for her cremation.0
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