In short I feel I can't trust him. I get these worries that he can become controlling. I am scared he will blame me or react in a bad way. I don't want him to lash out. I just saw him last night and he was acting disrespectful and had shown some signs of it before. I feel we don't want the same things and he doesn't truly respect me. I just know its over. I want to end it. I really do. He even told me I am acting weird and distant lately.
Can I call him? And what do u say?
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you should only break up over the phone if you do not feel safe. Otherwise in person face to face is best. If he's controlling you have to ask yourself if he's telling you were to be... disapproving of your friends... sex is getting rougher... and blames you for his faults.
^^ then yea those are signs of a phone call break up.
And yea he's right about how you are..."growing distant" its because you want to break up with him, Anyone will notice because that special feeling you once had is gone.