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I'm sorry he's playing games rather than just telling you what's what.
It sounds like he's thinking you WILL want to hook up again, so he's trying his best to dodge you, and to dodge the entire situation. He's not wanting to deal with you or talk to you, so he's playing these games to get you to leave him alone.
I'd do just that... let it go.
He's playing games, he's an ex, you guys had a drunk hook up that made him (or both of you) uncomfortable... I'd just let this all go.
I wouldn't contact him anymore, I'd avoid him as much as possible.
Maybe you guys can be friends at some point in the future, but that doesn't seem possible right now.1