Most Helpful Guy
You are going to have to move on. This guy sounds like a prick.
Most Helpful Girl
He seems pretty horrible if iam honest, I went through a hard time and my partner was there every step of the way, he pushed me to be the person I was before this bad patch, he helped me sort all the things I let get on topof me , he told me I've had a bad yr and not everyone can deal with everything by themselves, but iam such a special person who needs to see she has so much too offer the world. If we had disagreements he would listen and come to a compromise with me. We split up after this mutual decision but he never treated me the way this man us treating you... I think you need to take a step away clear your head and think of his behaviours and how offten they are because being like this towards someone you love is not normal and there could be something else... maybe having an affair leaving you to be with her then relising the grass isn't greener on the other side or substance abuse dont accuse but you need to be strong have a clear mind because his eratic behaviour is Confussing you and your head all over the place maybe when your heads clear you find some answers you can determine if he is right for you or if its time to get rid of him