So my boyfriend of 1.5 years and I mutually ended our relation because our parents just couldn't agree to our marriage. We tried for 9 months and it became more messier between them. And so, I miss him, So badly. I keep picking my phone to call him and I know he misses me too but we both know we'll lose shreds of strength we might just have in us,
I don't know whether to blame my parents or myself for falling him, because they just won't listen to me.
Feeling the stump.
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The way I see it, to make this short and sweet, is you and your Ex are Over 18 who fell in love with one another, Not Marrying---------Meet the parents. It's none of their business who you Both decide on, Who you want to spend eternity with, and if you Both were smarter in the beginning of Their Bogus Beguine, you would have showed Both sides what I call Tough Love, putting your foot down, telling them straight out That: I'm sorry you all feel this way, but if you don't like it, then give us a call when you finally can---Accept it...
With a little of The Cut and Dry Carrot that you may have had to dangle over their noses, would show them all who was Big boss in your own lives, who is Straw boss in charge, and that there are two New sheriff's in town who Refuse to bow down to their Demeaning Demands.
Believe me, eventually when the smoke would have cleared, they would have come to their senses, wanting you both back in the saddle of their lives again, and somehow a family reunion most likely would have transpired, with everything blowing over.
Go ahead, it's your life, make the call you so bad want to make. Have a long serious soul mate talk with him. Put this to bed and make up your own Mature minds that you are marrying one another, not the----Fockers.
If you stand for this with them, then you will surely stoop to whatever poop they decide to throw your way in the future. Don't fall for it. They want to take you by the reins, pulling you in their direction. Let them know your weather vain has changed for-----Sunny skies now.
With all of this, This will make you stronger And----Wise as an old owl...
Good luck, God bless. xx0
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