So my ex broke up with me and we seem to have this weird whatever u wanna call it. He even had a rebound gf right after the breakup they didn't last long less than 2mths. He still had my photos on his phone, still k. i. t with me but I was aware he had his gf so we kept it respectful. We still eat lunch together (work together) wait for each other to walk to our cars when leaving work. He still has his moments where he throws hints at me about our breakup such as "i can forgive but cnt forget" or brings up what I did wrong during our relationship. He hasn't texted me like he use to but we did hang out last week which we hadn't done that since our break up.. yeah I said break up. I've tried to tell him I miss him n wld like to work things out but he tells me I hurt him n at the moment he doesn't feel the same way. However, when we are alone he has kissed me before and gives me a hug. Someone tell me where cld this be heading? What is it that we have? I miss him and love him like no other guy.. id marry him in a heart beat :(
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this dude sounds like he has no problem reciprocating the attention you're giving him and clearly if he's giving you that much attention and affection he's being disrespectful to his gf. i'm not sure what you did to hurt him, because he stills seems butt hurt over it. what i would do if you already haven't is apologize in a very classy manner and subtlety sneak in a line about how you you still care about him, but you're making your own decision to try and move on since he A) doesn't know what he wants B) is still butt hurt towards you.
all of this of course should be classy and avoid using the term butt hurt lol
the most powerful thing you can do is walk away and mean it.
he calls... take your time responding
he contacts you more frequently... ignore him for a bit.
make it clear you're only interested in working on a relationship rather than letting him have his cake and eat it too. girls do this to me all the time. cut it off and he'll respect you more for it in the long run.0
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