So I was looking through my girls phone and saw an odd text from a person I didn't know! His name was John and yes "curiosity killed the cat" and I had to look into it more! Turns out that the girl I've been with for the last 3 years has been texting this guy for the last 6-8 months. In my eyes the texts are inappropriate and sexual in nature! Some of the contexts says to him to come over a d take care of her while others she's saying that she's attracted to him and he is to her! Also that if they would end up seeing one another it would be trouble! Am I wrong for freaking out! I do love this girl and don't kniw what or how to approach this! I may also add that when we are together it seams everything is great and there are no issues! She doesn't act weird or far! Please help with any and all suggestions!!!
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id go ahead and say texting isn't cheating... until you start fliriting then its close enough to cheating. id just lay it out for your girlfriend to pick and make a choice. and you def deserve an apology.2