I had to move away for college to the other side of the country last month. It was going to be for an year. He was a bit upset about it but he encouraged me to chase my dreams. He was crying the day he dropped me off at the airport. Little did I know at the time that he was going to not take this long distance very well. We have experienced long distance a couple of times and managed to get through them every time so I was confident we would get through this one. And it would be the last time before we possibly settle down.
One day he asked for an open relationship. i was appalled. I said no. he explained he had conflicted feelings and he needed time to sort them out. Fast Forward to three weeks later, we are now broken up and he is currently dating a new girl (who is also married but she left her husband for him!) they r rushing things a bit TOO fast!
He finally told me that he is kind of using her for sex. He needs to get more experience before marrying me. True? I dont know. he said he is in love with me and always will be. He even said I am free to date others. However, he did mention he will end it with her eventually because he is only sexually attracted to her, nothing more. my concern is the girl is actually falling for him.
does this sound like he is honest? will he come back? a rebound? what do you think? I know in my heart he does love me but I think he just wants to get more sexual experiences because i was his first one.