About one year ago my and my girlfriend stopped contact after a 6 month relationship, she moved on in my face no more than 3 days after we stopped talking, which really hurt me.
She stopped contacting me because she thought that I was becoming needy and insecure which kind of disgusts me because this is not who I am. She thinks this because towards the end of the relationship she started acting differently towards me and I asked her a few times if there was a problem. She kept telling me no, and she told me she was still interested, even though she was showing no interest, it was like her calling and texting were out of habit.
We are still friends on Facebook, and all of our photos together are still up on her page ( I looked for the first time in year just recently)
After much consideration, and letting it go for one year, I have realised, yes I want her back, not because my ego was bruised, but because after months of not even thinking about her and seeing other people, no one has come close.
So, if I contact her, what do I say? Do I bring up something that reminds her of the good times? Is this a waste of time?
- Don't contact herVote A
- Wait for her to contact youVote B
- why are you even thinking about thisVote C
Most Helpful Girl
its a tricky 1 my friend and i have been in a
similar situation i voted dont contact her but on 2 nd thoughts i would send her a brief Facebook inbox saying "hi how are you its been a while". i wouldn't go into how u want to get back togetha as u dnt want the embaresment of another rejection. if she has been missing u 2 she will say! all the best0