I have been with her for 2 years and just yesterday I broke up with her because she decided to be with her pot head friends instead of following through with me and her plan of being together and spending the night together. I was raging when she told me the plans were changed because her and her female friend were going to hang out. So I exploded and told her how i felt about being option number 3, so weed, friends, then Brandon. I tried to talk to her and I told her I'm not gonna beg you to be with me. We argued for hours and finally I called her up and told her were over and it is best if we just move on and loose contact with each other. So after listening to her begging me to stay with her and her telling me she will change. I simply said loose my number and go enjoy life and move on. She keeps calling and texting me, I have ignored everyone of them besides the early morning call where she called to see if I was ok, I replied yea im fine Girlfriend: lets work this out. Me: no it can't work. Girlfiend: can we at least be friends because I dont want to lose you. Me: no we can't be friends because it will cause me problems. Me: I shouldn't be the last option on your list. So as much as i hate being a dick I have ignored all of her calls and officially ended it with her. Now I love her so much but what she did to me kinda hurt because I felt like nothing but a back burner option. Despite all of this crap I still want her back but I am trying to teach her a lesson. I am confused about everything and really want us to work it out but I am tired of trying. I told her to lose all contact and to move on and she keeps calling me! I dont understand why!
Most Helpful Girl
Lol! You're so immature! You tell her to lose your number and to move on. She doesn't want to because she loves you. If you truly loved her you wouldn't want her to go through with suffering or getting hurt. You should be more understanding! In my opinion you're not a good boyfriend. She's also not a good girlfriend if she is putting your time aside sometimes but maybe there's a reason, like she's so busy. Look honey, if she really didn't care about you (like you said she's pushing you to the side), her actions would have showed it! Like you're so stupid for not realizing that this girl doesn't want to let you go!2
Most Helpful Guy
Nope, just ignore it, and move on without her. You made a good choice to leave her as she couldn't get her act together. Now find someone worth your time.2