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He sounds like he is still mentally addicted and isn't ready to give it up, he doesn't want to give it up. I think the best you can hope for now, after all you've tried, is to wish him the best with this new woman. Maybe she can be the inspiration he needs to get clean, maybe she will be detrimental and enable him to become worse, but whatever the outcome: you can't help him now, you aren't what he needs. It's not your fault and you haven't failed him, but sadly it isn't meant to be. It's hard but just cut him out as much as you can, he needs to break the dependency he has on you and the thought that he might have a chance to come home. Sometimes hitting rock bottom is the only way to come up.