Most Helpful Guy
It is unlikely he would be able to take your kids. He is using terror to control you. At most he would get joint custody, and pay child support. He has a career, which means he can't be home with the kids. If anything he is more likely to lose the children than you are. The courts have it set up so that the main provider gets screwed in a divorce, because of situations like yours. Find a good divorce lawyer and talk to them. Make sure you ask them about finding judges that he isn't friends with, as that sounds like a conflict of interest. Lawyers get divorced so I would imagine a system already exists to make sure this conflict of interest won't be a problem.
Most Helpful Girl
it's just empty words and threats. He knows you don't want him anymore and he's trying to scare you. I read that www.huffingtonpost.com/.../...ers-d_b_1252868.html
Find a good lawyer, start the procedures and stay strong.