My ex and I dated for seven months before she broke up with me. So I did what I always do after a relationship is over my me, which is basically to block her out of my life. It's been about two months since then and I thought that was it until I recently started receiving Facebook messages from an unknown account and text from different numbers (I'm guessing her friends). Anyway the messages are about how we need to talk and that I owe her closure. I don't believe I do. For one I made my peace when it all ended and second I don't like being told I owe someone something just because they want it. And why would my reason to shutting her out of my life matter? Talk to some friend about it and it was split in half. Some said I do and other said I didn't.
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if you really liked her, i think closure is the best way to keep things friendly, I've dated a girl for 1 month and things were going great, , being intimate, discussing her daughter, takig things slow etc.. and all out of a sudden after she came back from her vacation... i received a message #'' we aren't allowed to be together''.( she is a single mom, and she did visit family there ). we work at the same place and ever since she hardly talks to me and acts strange around me, like she hates me for no reason. I've tried for almost 1,5 months to get an answer, nothing, bunch of excuses, Yesterday i started a short and small conversation with her, asking her how she was doing etc... we had a short but relaxed and fun conversation. maybe if i take it slow and plan it carefull, we could end up having a casual meet up. give her closure, you never now how things will be going. could be you meet her again later on.1