My ex tried to talk to me on facebook. I broke up with him last week. I chatted with him a bit. I dumped him. I really don't think he is right for me and I don't want to get back together.. but ah I do miss him as a person and it was nice to talk to him. We were just joking around, he was saying we had good times.
My friend said do NOT talk to him and I am making a big mistake. But I feel bad ignoring him too :(
Is it possible for us to be friends or does he want me back?
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This is a tough one and I totally get how you feel. This guy was part of your life and you had a strong friendship, it's hard to just lose a friend like that, to sever the bond. In my personal opinion it's best to minimise contact for a while, until he really gets the picture that the relationship isn't what it used to be, then you can both start working on being friends without the romantic connotations, but it will be different and it is important to get that distance when emotions are still so raw. Maybe not for you but probably for him.1