My friend said do NOT talk to him and I am making a big mistake. But I feel bad ignoring him too :(
Is it possible for us to be friends or does he want me back?
Most Helpful Guy
Only time will tell if that's a good decision.
you might end up together again but if you ever get into another relationship it will be a problem for your bf because of the given history
Most Helpful Girl
This is a tough one and I totally get how you feel. This guy was part of your life and you had a strong friendship, it's hard to just lose a friend like that, to sever the bond. In my personal opinion it's best to minimise contact for a while, until he really gets the picture that the relationship isn't what it used to be, then you can both start working on being friends without the romantic connotations, but it will be different and it is important to get that distance when emotions are still so raw. Maybe not for you but probably for him.