My ex broke up with me back in August. I saw him a few times after that & then moved. I haven't contacted him & he hasn't contacted me either (although he's up 5am every day & doesn't go to bed til midnight). Is it okay to eventually contact the ex first if after a time away I still want him? It wasn't a bad breakup, it was due to the honeymoon phase wearing off for him & him getting grass-is-greener. There were no mean words on either side. Just a lot of crying on both.