Ok so i've just bumped into my ex of two years today, we have been split up for 3 months haven't spoken at all but we attend the same university so i reckoned this day would come sooner or later.
I just saw her and she was acting very nervous and awkward like looking away smiling and laughing at weird times covering her hands with her face etc,
Anyway she was asking me what i've been up to and i said not much just hanging out with friends and she said it's good to know i'm still having fun which i found kinda weird that she said that. Then she said seeing me makes her realise how lonely she is and i was just like don't be hard on yourself we all get lonely it's university. I look at her again and her eyes are watering and i'm like are you ok and then she says she's fine and then i'm like but your crying and then she got kind of defensive and said she's fine and i didn't want to probe her so i just said ok cool have a nice lecture and we parted.
It's really weird to me that she cried tbh, i mean brief history we broke up because she doesn't believe i will be a sucessful person in the future, she needs a sucessful man and she doesn't believe i'm going to be eventhough i'm studying to be a lawyer she doesn't think i will make it. She even said to one of her friends she will hate herself if i end up sucessful as i'm perfect, i never cheated or anything i just loved her unconditionally. Anyway she broke up with me 3 times over this same thing, so it's crazy to see her cry i mean she broke up with me 3 times then see's me after 3 months and cries?
Anyway what do you guys think this means? I was quite suprised as i thought she would be over the whole thing. Maybe because she saw that i was ok and not in some ditch having a terrible life after she broke up with me, that's why she felt bad. Or maybe she realised what she lost when she saw me i don't know, it's all just a little weird i mean she's the one who broke up with me why would she cry?
Most Helpful Girl
She seems very immature to keep going back and forth. I did that once with someone (being broke up with and then getting back with him). It's under her regulations. Don't go back out with her because if she can't be with you and support you during your hard times, you'll always have to worry about her leaving when you need her most.0
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Most Helpful Guy
Who cares what it means? It sounds like SHE left you, and so yeah she deserves to cry now that she realizes she made a terrible mistake.
It's funny how women will end a relationship because of something they "think" that you can never really determine. They don't "THINK" you'll be successful or crap like that. You never know what life holds in store, and to me it's shallow that she would leave you for such a reason. She deserves her loneliness and hopefully it will open her eyes to not judge so quickly.
You on the other hand, keep doing what you're doing and don't let her try to drag you down or play games with you.0
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