they're friends but they haven't spoken in a while, but my ex still remains in contact with me as friends.
Do you think I have a second shot now that he doesn't speak often to the other girl?
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Why would you want to be with a guy who cheats on you. Walk away and don't look back.
The only other option is you declare that cheating or 'making out' with other people while in a relationship with you is a deal breaker and you are worth more than that.
Don't give him the permission to behave badly. Either he is a nice guy or you find one. Don't compromise.