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Well it is confusing, the details you gave do not hint at any reason why did break up. You seem to assume that you got too clingy because you made remarks about him cancelling dates and being distant. I think the fact that he was cancelling dates and being distant is a sign that he already started to make the decision, even before you went full clingy. A potential but totally hypothetical scenario : You told us you were both first loves. Maybe he's not sure anymore if you are the one, after all you were his only one so maybe he thinks he's missing on life, especially if he gets the impression that his single male friends are having a lot of fun. In that case, I think he just needs some space and should contact you back if he truly loves you, but that could take a lot more time than your mental strength can handle...
Do you have any idea at all why he broke up with you? What did he say, how long has he been distant, how fast did he cut off contact?
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