my ex boyfriend dumped me should I try to get him back or wait till he comes back? Will he come back? We were so in love talking about marriage and our future we have a strong connection everything was good until a couple of wks before he brokeup with me, he got distant We were together for 3 years, I have been doing NC for 2 wks now, I miss him but I'm scared he doesn't miss me, we have talked a couple of times when I was chasing him the first 3 wks he was mad and angry, but he broke up with me he should be happy. by the way I was good to him I gave him everything and wanted the best for him, in the end of the relationship I got clingy and I would ask whats wrong, I did chew him out when he canceled dates and wouldn't see me, I don't know if it was my fault or his, he just leaves he ignores me don't respond to my texts or anything then he blocked me on Facebook, how can he be so cold when he use to love me, by the way there was no cheating or abuse or any bad stuff we had a good relationship. Does anyone think he will come back? Or regret this sooner or later, also we were both each others 1st love, he told me that everything was my fault he said he loved up until the day he broke it off, he says he was over me but he has so much mixed singnals and he just keeps yelling at me I don't even know why. I'm so confused
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Well it is confusing, the details you gave do not hint at any reason why did break up. You seem to assume that you got too clingy because you made remarks about him cancelling dates and being distant. I think the fact that he was cancelling dates and being distant is a sign that he already started to make the decision, even before you went full clingy. A potential but totally hypothetical scenario : You told us you were both first loves. Maybe he's not sure anymore if you are the one, after all you were his only one so maybe he thinks he's missing on life, especially if he gets the impression that his single male friends are having a lot of fun. In that case, I think he just needs some space and should contact you back if he truly loves you, but that could take a lot more time than your mental strength can handle...
Do you have any idea at all why he broke up with you? What did he say, how long has he been distant, how fast did he cut off contact?0
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