So my father just passed away not to long ago and my bf couldnt be here in person but he promised he would talk to me everyday Skype and all that... but he hasn't talked to me much lately actually hardly at all it seems like he's ignoring me... so then he picked a time of day where we can talk and see how we are and stuff but then he still barely talks to me and he's constantly late... so i got mad and broke up with him did i do the right thing or did i over react?
- over reactedVote A
- right thingVote B
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It appears that you both are in a LDR when you mentioned the Skype deal and being he couldn't even Be there for you in the Lime light when dad passed away, shows me he Is--------Dead in the water, this cold hearted duck and dick. It's one thing when you can't be there in person, but to have made lame duck excuses with the 'Disappearing act' doesn't Fly with me.
LDR are one of the hardest ones to maintain. It takes a lot of time and patience and effort on both parties or partner's ends to keep the cams and flames going. This bird is no exception to my golden goose rule.
He is putting you on his pay no mind list, sweetie, and with this I find he doesn't care enough, even when the chips are down, to Send His Very---Best of anything But a rude and crude message that he could care less.
Forget him, he's not worth your time. You have bigger fish to fry right now in trying to deal with a death of a loved one, which I can tell you first handed, like LDR, is Very hard to endure.
Good luck, God bless, you have my deepest condolences. xxoo1