I'm 17 and I've been with my girlfriend for two years. I love her, but not in the way I originally thought I did. I'm not attracted to her sexually and only love her like family/friends.
Recently, I got really turned on by seeing other men nude in a public shower so decided to experiment with some guys in chat rooms and on skype. I know this is wrong to do this to my girlfriend and is cheating but I had to know if I was gay before I did anything rash.
Now I'm 100% sure I'm gay and I just don't know how to tell her, she loves me. We're so close and I want to remain close as friends and want to cause the least amount of pain to her as possible so we can both move on and I can start my search for a boyfriend.
Most Helpful Guy
Just tell her the truth, lies will only make it more painful. Also tell her you still want to be friends with her if she's willing. But please let her find a guy that can love her the way she wants to be loved. I have no idea where you could get a boyfriend I'm straight, but see if theirs any gay clubs in your city.1