Okay, so me and my girlfriend broke up a couple of weeks ago, I feel that I made a massive mistake in this because it wasn't based off of not having feelings for her anymore. It was due to distance. I've tried to fight for her and win her back, but everything I've tried has either backfired or failed completely. What do I do?
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That's strange. People usually don't end relationships when they are still deeply in love with each other. I understand that distance can be an issue, but if you really love someone you make it work. She's probably very upset, especially if she didn't see it coming.
All I can say is be patient. But any person would be careful letting someone in their life again after that same person gave up on the relationship. Logically and smart to do so.
Maybe it's best to give her space so she can rethink. You can just break it of and expect her to be all happy when you decide you want her in your life again.
I see your under 18 so maybe you think it's okay to just break up and get back together, and maybe most of your peers do have these on/off relationships. But most people are very serious about breaking up.
It's very hard to say what else you could do with the little information we received.