I was in a secret relationship at work. Something happened, too much drama I guess, and he went silent. I'm totally fine with it being done, however, I'm worried about him. I think there is something really wrong or strange going on with him, and at a minimum, we can definitely be friends. I don't care to date him or sleep with him again, but I do care about his well being. We have not really spoken in over 2 weeks, should I check in and offer a friendly ear? I'm sure he'd ignore it, but I am genuinely concerned, and would really like him to know I'm here in a friend capacity. I'm married (getting divorced) and am not desperate to "get him back". Just feeling haunted by his recent, miserable behavior.
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Being you work together and were once "Together," no harm in sending a friendly text just to Check up on how he is doing? He most likely will respond with just a hymn and a haw but at least you would have showed a side of you that he unfortunately will never get to know.
His silence will probably stay not so golden, you may never really know what's eating him up inside unless you both would sit down and talk about it.
Good luck. xx0