A couple of weeks ago I was out of town and just met a girl but for some reason sent my ex a post card. It took exactly 2 days to arrive and a few mutual acquaintances found out that I had meat someone and what happened I get a text from her saying "Thank you for the postcard :)".
Obviously I didn't reply but I'm confused why she's texting me. She's obviously not just texting me because I went against her wishes. My gut feeling says that she's trying to initiate contact again but in a very casual way because she still has feelings for me. I still have feelings for her but I want her to make it a little more clear what she wants. Or could she just be thanking me. I think she's gonna show up somewhere more and more.
What should I do? Any thoughts on what's going on?
Thanks for the help :)
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You sent her a postcard, and in response, she succinctly thanked you via text. That, in and of itself is not indicative of an attempt to reconcile with you or evidence of her feelings for you.
Nevertheless, I find it difficult to believe, after you have identified and experienced her patterns of deceit, you are willing to trust her at face value and entertain the notion of reuniting with her. Which leads me to ask, do you love dysfunction, or what?
In any case, let her be. She is not exclusive, long term relationship ready.