SCENERIO - you had an ex that during and after the relationship SHE WAS ALWAYS AT YOUR BECK AND CALL, loved you and chased you ( fed your ego ) so she stop all the chasing now you are curious and u text her BOOM she replies your ego has been fed so u ignore her again and this keeps happening till she gets tired of you holding her hope of being with you over her head... she stops replying so u start saying " u forgot about me".. bla bla NO response ( you are panicking now because your ego is hungry and she isn't feeding it ) and THEN u find a pic of her with her new guy online looking happy as ever now would this bother you? how would you feel as a guy
Most Helpful Guy
I know it probably goes against the question, but I honestly can't see myself ever getting into that situation. I have an ego, sure, but it's fueled more by self confidence than outside stimulus such as this.
I wouldn't keep her on a "leash" just to feed my ego. Once the relationship is over, I'd let her go. If we broke up, there would obviously have been a reason, and when she found somebody new, I would be happy for her, in an offhand kind of a way. Like, "Oh, she's with somebody else, cool. Now to finish whatever I'm doing."
Any man who behaves such as in your example is very insecure and childish, in my opinion. I apologize if that's not the answer you're looking for, but it's how I feel.1
Most Helpful Girl
This guy you're describing sounds like a douche, so in all honesty he probably wouldn't care so don't waste your time.1