I packed up her things left it outside, changed the door lock.
it turned out she has 2 other of these really *close*
Friends when she left a voice message and said it was all a misunderstanding
Was that too harsh? Or did she deserve it?
No - she doesn't
Most Helpful Girl
A man's take on stuff like this is amazing - quite double standard from my standpoint. If a man is found in such a predicament, he wants or expects the woman to forgive him and continue the relationship like it never happened.
I can understand how you must and felt and why you would've reacted that way.
But, i also think that you should have dealt with it the same way you would have wanted her to deal with it if the shoes were on the other foot - to be fair.
Most Helpful Guy
Yes she deserves it. I am one to say cheating isn't just "kissing" and such. There are boundaries she is clearly crossing here. You regard cuddling as a mutually exclusive activity and rightfully so. You don't just go cuddling with random people so neither should she. She's clearly emotionally involved enough with this other guy to go cuddling. Keep this bitch out of your life. The fact that they're trying to convince you it was a "misunderstanding" is just a sign that she's toxic enough to try and convince you that you're "wrong" about what you saw.