I've been with him for 17 years. He's shoved me into a wall a few times, no hitting, etc. He will put me down by calling me the C word, bitch, slut, etc. When he gets mad, he'll say I'm lazy, the kids like him better, I spoil the kids and no way in hell if I leave I would get custody of the kids. (They are 15 and 11) We haven't slept in the same bed or had sex for years! But I'm trying to decide if I make myself happy or stay for the sake of the kids?
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Have u talked to the kids to gauge their reaction to a divorce?
Also, although the court will decide what happens with the kids, they are prob old enough to decide who they want to live with and this will be asked of them by the authorities, though it may not necessarily be adhered to.0