My ex and I broke up a couple of weeks ago and right now we're just good friends. I've moved on and so has he. Just recently he proposed that we still have sex and I agreed cause I thought it would be fun. Now I'm not so sure... is this seen as slutty? I'm worried that it may affect my future relationships? How would you guys react if your current partner slept with their ex after they broke up?
I've done this before with another ex and I ended the fuck buddy thing because well I wasn't having fun anymore and I thought it would be best if i moved on and did something better.
Most Helpful Guy
My fear is the opposite: you could end up getting caught up emotionally once again. Good sex does cause a connect... do you want that?0
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No, Not "Slutty," but more like "Slick a a wet dick" on his end, alurvelikedis. And with an "EX" that marks his Own X in your soft spot, More times And----Often---- they find Motive and if given Opportunity to want you not only back in their life, back between the sheets but with no ties Just------The fuck buddy thing.
Don't let him have the upper hand like the Ghost of yesterday had. You saw what happened Then and if you let history repeat itself with this sly fox, it will turn into another train wreck just waiting to happen, with you riding on his caboose and in the End------I wasn't having any fun anymore.
Yes, move on. You deserve more than with this lamb chop in sheep's clothing. Let this be a lesson you learned from the past problem child and another one I will add to the flock Is: There is never any guarantee that it would ever go back in time to the 'Way we were' because why would just Any "EX" want to buy the cow when they can get the milk free, as they say? That, my princess, should Not have to be your slogan with him.
Many times they are there for the ride, no strings attached Nor being hooked at the hip. They feel free as a bird to do with you what they want, when they want and 'Move on' themselves However long it might take them, should they decide to just take off in the sunset someday.
Good luck. xx
Let him know you're not Into this scene and that you Are far better than being any man's moo c