My ex and I broke up about 3 years ago. We dated for a year and some, he was my first EVERYTHING. We have had time where we've tried to work things out but different things were happening to us that didn't make it easy. Threw out the time he has had different girlfriends and stuff but he always finds his way back to me. (I haven't date anyone since we broke up just because I don't want anyone to feel like they're my second choice that wouldn't be fair to them) Every time he get a new girl friend it makes it easier (at least I think) to move on. I kind like that he finds his way back to me because that means he is still thinking about me too. Right? One of our times of reconnecting he told me that I was his first love and the other girls really don't help him get his mind off of me. The most recent time we reconnected he was back in town for a week fresh out of a relationship and we hung out and we made out a bit and cuddle most of the time as we were talk he told me that I'm always going to have a special place in his heart and a bunch of other stupid female emotional things. After I left he told me that he had no idea that he still had these strong of feelings for me. we
So my questions are why do I still have these feelings for him? Why haven't they really changed much? Am I dumb for believing and still having feelings for him?
I'm not really an emotional girl so this topic makes me upset.
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Answers to the questions in the last few lines:
Question 1: he was your first everything
Question 2: he was your first everything
Question 3: No, just naive..
My opinion.. and I will keep this short...
have you ever heard of the terms "fall back" "rebound" "on deck" "available" "spare tire" etc... I could go on.
If you know one of these terms, you know what you are to him. Your next move is up to you.1
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