Just wanted to know what triggers would make you want to take back an ex. What would you like to see in them and what would give you the butterflies again?
Basically what will bring back the magic?
Most Helpful Girl
Nothing can create a spark. It comes naturally and the sucky part is that usually if it's gone, it's not coming back. Both times my past relationships failed is because either I lost my feelings or the guy did. Years later and my feelings haven't resurfaced and neither did their feelings if it's the scenario of them losing attraction for me. If it was possible to rekindle those romantic feelings and butterflies then heck, I'd be the first to know as I know what it's like to fall for someone who doesn't feel the same.
Unless both partners are still inside the relationship, chances are low that anything will change. As much as that hurts. The only times ex's seem to come back is when they realize that they miss you and need you in their life OR if there was a fight of some kind and one partner acted on emotion but still loved you deep down but unfortunately this doesn't always happen. In fact, judging from the many forums I'm on dealing with breaking up and relationships, it seems like it usually does NOT happen.
Use this as a motivation to move on.
Most Helpful Guy
Depends on the situation mate. Im going through the same thing, desperately want her back but agonisingly coming to the realisation that there is nothing I can do, and if she wants it to happen, only she can do it! I know how much it hurts!!!