I want someone and they want me, but he also wants her?
What Guys Said 1
What you should think about the situation is that this guy will never be able to just be with you, and only you, forever. If that is a dealbreaker for you (and it is for most people), then you need to cut your losses now and remove the guy from your life. Otherwise you will just keep running into this problem.
If you are fine with open relationships, then that brings with it a different set of advice and opinions, but in my experience that isn't going to be the case here.
What Girls Said 1
Let him have her, don't go running back to him. Was there like a reason why you two broke up? Do you want to get back together with him or would you rather move on? I usually move on from exes and keep them out of site I don't go back to them. Plus my feelings are gone for my ex nothing left just the past. I think he could be playing mind games with you and could possibly just play with your feelings. He can't have both of you it has to be one or the other. If you want to take him back its up to you. I usually just let it go, if it didn't work out the first time why would it work out the second time?
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