My ex bf broke up with me a few months ago. For about a month he was still in contact with me wanting to make things work, and then quickly changing his mind back and forth every day. He said he was depressed with his job and not getting into grad school. For a few weeks he wanted to take things slow, but he was still treating me badly so I ignored him mostly. Well 2 months ago he met a girl on Facebook and they met up and have been inseparable since then. I acted desperate and needy, but then decided to leave and go NC. It has been 2 months of NC and neither of us have contacted one another during this time. I have been keeping myself busy, I have been on a few dates, and have enjoyed my life a bit more now. I do think about him from time to time and miss him. A few weeks ago our mutual friend warned him that we were going to the same bar on the weekend, and my ex said he was okay with seeing me. His current girlfriend threw a tantrum at the bar, even though I kept my distance the whole night. They have been spending a lot of money and traveling around a lot on the weekends. It is his birthday so I texted him wishing him a happy birthday, and hoped that he is doing well. He did not respond. I feel like an idiot right now. We did not end our relationship hating each other, he just apologized a lot for hurting me and said he was confused and lost with where his life was going. Does this mean his current girlfriend is not a rebound? Him not responding hurts enough to bother me.
Most Helpful Guy
he has a gf now. that's why. you two are no longer obligated to each other for anything, although yeah it was nice of you to send him a text but he didn't have to respond. should he have? well he could have to be nice but its up to him.0
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With him finding a newbie now on his arm and as you put It-------Inseparable since then, he has Obviously moved on, finding a new life and romance and now he is even putting you on his pay no mind list.
You both had a good run, even thought you would reunite again, but with his behavior and badly boyish immature rude manner of "Treating me so badly," he wasn't sure what he wanted then again with you both and things became in a rock and hard place situation in his life and at the same time, Became this fickle pickle as well... and along comes Miss marry down another rosebud path then.
You were right in going down south, sweetie, starting over and leaving the past behind. However, the skeletons came out of the closet, rattling His Other not so sweet half and her Own insecurities are the Only thing I see here right now a someone who Should------Should feel like an idiot right now.
Even after her childish display in the bar, you took your time and was every bit the lady to even send him a Happy birthday message. Sadly, because of her and her antics, he didn't kindly return it. I'm sure That was the reason.
No, I am keen on what I am seeing here, the writing is on the wall. He is more of a butt kisser than taking on a Rebound Rebecca for I feel she was what he was missing out of his life and Now-----He knows where his life is going. Apparently, he is lost with the Thrill kill of being controlled now. She sounds spoiled and babyish.
And with this, I also see a lot of toil and trouble in Denmark down the beaten path of having to put up with a hissy fit infant who he will cater to until the cows come home, but eventually you hearing the news on Fb that there is trouble in paradise too.
Long story short, don't let this bother you... let sleeping dogs and let him know now how it feels to be most likely Treated badly, for I know this type and she is the straw boss and he is probably always in the dog house.
They deserve one another and you Deserve better.
Good luck. xx0