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I think the fact of you maybe accepting his flaws started to be his crutch on you. Thus when trying to accommodate it and then try helping him it was something he isn't used to when you were being more like a servant I guess. Even when that doesn't seem like who you are. If you never liked people like that, what was the main reason that you stayed in this relationship? I could guess but that wouldn't get us to a reasonable answer to help you out, so out with it? If you had already set the roles of the relationship and he wasn't into it I think you should of left especially if he's doing nose candy, that's money that could be put into the relationship maybe a since dinner for two, or not perhaps just a dinner at home? This guy just sounds sooo unready for a relationship. I think it's best to simply cut this guy out because the relationship has already become one sided and not the give and take flow it;s supposed to be.
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