Do you think women just stop caring for their guys once they become a mother?
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A woman isn't an automaton. She doesn't just "Stop caring" for the man she has pledged her life to.
But a man can become complacent in his relationship with her, and stop showing her the tender mercies she desperately needs from him.
Basically, it goes like this: If, as the man, you get complacent and comfortable and stop showing her the love you showed her when you were dating, she will grow away from you, and yes, it will be quite easy for her to shower her needed affections on her child.
If you do your due diligence, (And dare I say, if you truly ever did love her in the first place, like you should love the woman you are going to live the rest of your life with) and you show her how much you love her, not once a year on your anniversary but appreciate everything she does for you, who she IS as a person, and the little things you love about her- and do it often FROM YOUR HEART, in true warmth of loving spirit for your mate, then there is no possibility she will just suddenly begin ignoring you over the infant.
It's not in her to do so, it is her loving essence to return true affection that you give her from the gratitude of your heart, that she is in your life.
Men make a grave error in forgetting this.3
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