Me and my ex were together for 3 years we really loved eachother, had a good relationship, then out of the blue he acted cold distant cancel dates for a couple weeks, then breaks up with me. We were eachothers first love, then a couple weeks later he has a new girlfriend, it has been 2 months since the split,1 month of no contact, and 2 weeks of him dating this girl. I have been doing my best working on myself, I've been talking to this new guy I like but in the back of my mind my X is always there like my heart says he's still the one. I want to tell him how I feel but I'm scared bc of the new girl or if he ignores me or gets mad. I do like this guy and don't want to hurt him if I'm still in love with my ex. But if I move on with this guy what happens if I lose my chances with my ex forever? What do I do move on with this new guy or tell my ex how I feel, I have no idea how my ex feels either, I don't know if the new girl is a rebound or not help!
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Move on completely, not to the new guy. You still love your ex so it's unfair to the new guy. Personally, it looks like your ex was cheating on you with this new girl. If he acted that way, it's clear that something has just, changed, and he no longer feels that way about you. Save yourself some heartache and just cut off all ties with your ex, while giving yourself some much needed alone time. Figure out who you are again, do what's best for yourself at the moment and just give yourself time away from relationships. Have fun and just give yourself time.1